READ: 1 Tim. 2:9-15
Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel—rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands… – 1 Pet. 3:3-6
Peter now addresses both women and men. First, he speaks to women, instructing them to be submissive to their husbands. These women may have had unbelieving husbands who were disobedient to the Word (vs.1). By living a godly life, they could possibly win their husbands over to Christ. They should not draw attention to themselves through external adornment such as elaborate hairstyles, gold jewelry, or beautiful clothes.
Instead, in the eyes of God, their inner selves are much more important for a good relationship with their husbands. A humble, quiet spirit is an adornment that is precious to God. That is what He wants to see, and it is pleasing to Him. He wants to bless it.
Peter points to the inner selves and attitudes of holy, God-fearing women as an example. They hoped in God by faith, expecting things from Him. Therefore, they were submissive to their husbands. Sarah is specifically mentioned, as she obediently followed Abraham (Heb. 11:11). Likewise, women should act as if they are her children. Then they will do well and have nothing to fear, neither from their husbands nor from others.
What Peter instructs these women to do applies today as well. In our time, women have become more emancipated. It is not self-evident to follow and be submissive to one’s husband. On the contrary! Yet it is the Lord Himself, who, through Peter, instructs us to follow this example.
How do you practice a “quiet spirit”?
Singing: Ps. 4:2